Lily Marie Koufopoulos arrived on August 31, 2010 at 1:59 am. She was three weeks early, but weighed 7 pounds, 11 ounces, and was 20 inches long. We are completely in love with this tiny person. She is absolutely perfect and looks just like her Daddy. I want to document the events leading up to her birth so I don't forget any aspect of it, so here it goes...
Around 5:00 am on Monday, August 30 I woke up because I felt a little trickle and thought I had peed the bed. I got up went to the bathroom and laid back down. In the back of my mind I thought maybe my water had broken, but I decided there was no way because I was only 36 weeks, 6 days pregnant. Well, at 5:15 am I had the same sensation, jumped out of bed, and muttered "oh shit". Chris immediately woke up, and I told him that I thought my water had broken, and of course he asked if I had peed the bed. We decided to go ahead and call the hospital to see what to do. At this point I wasn't having any contractions so I was still holding onto the fact that maybe my water really hadn't broken...silly me. Labor and Delivery told me to come in and get checked out because it sounded like my water had broken. Chris and I had nothing together, so we got everything we thought we might need together and headed to the hospital. At this point my water was just leaking a little so I thought we were doing pretty good.
We pulled into the hospital, parked, and Chris got me out of the car. As soon as I stood up the flood gates opened. I'm talking the whole bottom half of me was SOAKED! I squished my way in my flip flops into the Emergency Room where I was put in a wheel chair to get registered. Chris and I were dying laughing because I was leaving a trail everywhere I went! When we got up to Labor and Delivery they had me stand up to get my weight, and yet again the flood gates opened, and we laughed until we cried.
Around 6:00 am I got changed, into bed, and hooked up to the monitors where we learned that I was having some contractions. They checked me, and I was 2 cm dilated and 80 % effaced. The doctor wanted to see what I could do as far as laboring on my own before introducing anything to help me out, so we started playing the waiting game. At some point, I decided that I needed to call school and let them know that I would not be there, and Chris had to call his work to let them know. We didn't call our families right away because we needed some time to let all of this sink in that this was for real. When we finally did call them, they were thrilled and starting making plans to come down.
By 12:00 pm I was only at 3 cm, 80 % effaced so they decided to start me on pitocin to help get things moving. My parents, brother, and Kristin all arrived sometime after this because they couldn't wait to meet little miss Lily. It was so nice to have everyone there to distract me from the waiting game. I wasn't in a whole lot of pain when they arrived, so it was fun to sit and visit. Things start to get a little hazy after this point, and I have no idea as far as a time line goes...
They kept upping my pitocin level every 30 minutes to help get my contractions into a regular pattern, and sometime late (9:00 pm?) into the evening it became more then my Lamaze breathing could help me with, so I decided to get a dose of Stadol. This is a very interesting drug. I felt so drunk after taking it, and I remember telling everyone that it made my eyes too heavy and I couldn't keep them open. It took enough of the edge off of the pain that I could deal with it again. By the time I could have my second dose, I was dying for it. My contractions were coming one on top of the other, with very little break between them. It was time for me to get my third dose, but I needed to PUSH!!
I started pushing, and oh my goodness it hurt so bad!! I pushed several times, but I just couldn't get her under my pubic bone, so the doctor had to help me out with a vacuum. Arrived screaming and perfect. It was the most amazing experience of my life, and I couldn't have done it without Chris. He sat there with me through 21 hours of labor, telling me when my contractions were coming, getting me ice or water, and just reminding me that there was going to be an amazing reward at the end of all of this pain. We are so in love and cannot wait to show her to the world :)